Simple Ideas, Radical Love Ripples
At some point in any meaningful marriage, we can forget our priorities and take each other for granted. When our lives are run by busy schedules, deadlines and long days, expressing love becomes more of burden instead of being part of who we are as lovers.
We forget the companionship of marriage and soon become roommates if not strangers to one another. As frustration builds, we start treat our loved ones as our enemies, because then they “would have” shifted from being our friend to becoming the source of our pain.
Excerpt
When your marriage has become the source of your pain and when you regret having ever met your spouse, your life is under real fire! Your marriage is a significant part of your life and it has the power to affect and infect all other aspects of your life.
Since the first publication of ‘Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Marriage In 31 Days – Workbook’ in November 2013, I have had an overwhelming response from people all over the world. I have connected with many men and women whose marriages had become their source of pain and it was because of their feedback that I was prompted to edit that publication, expand it and produce this publication, Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days - Women’s Guide, to help you get more clarity and courage to restore love and heal your relationship.
Using the simple intervention principles in this book, you will be able to “see” your underlying relationship problems that are driving your emotional and behavioral symptoms. Rather than point fingers and assign blame for having a bad marriage or wondering why you married the wrong person, you will be able to more clearly understand the origins of your struggles and better address your challenges with targeted, more effective strategy.
At some point in any meaningful marriage, we can forget our priorities and take each other for granted. When our lives are run by busy schedules, deadlines and long days, expressing love becomes more of burden instead of being part of who we are as lovers.We forget the companionship of marriage and soon become roommates if not strangers to one another. As frustration builds, we start treat our loved ones as our enemies, because then they “would have” shifted from being our friend to becoming the source of our pain.
Excerpt
When your marriage has become the source of your pain and when you regret having ever met your spouse, your life is under real fire! Your marriage is a significant part of your life and it has the power to affect and infect all other aspects of your life.
Since the first publication of ‘Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Marriage In 31 Days – Workbook’ in November 2013, I have had an overwhelming response from people all over the world. I have connected with many men and women whose marriages had become their source of pain and it was because of their feedback that I was prompted to edit that publication, expand it and produce this publication, Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days - Women’s Guide, to help you get more clarity and courage to restore love and heal your relationship.
Using the simple intervention principles in this book, you will be able to “see” your underlying relationship problems that are driving your emotional and behavioral symptoms. Rather than point fingers and assign blame for having a bad marriage or wondering why you married the wrong person, you will be able to more clearly understand the origins of your struggles and better address your challenges with targeted, more effective strategy.
What’s it like to be your husband?
It is easier to assume that you know how your partner thinks and feels. Switching roles can sometimes work wonders.
When having a disagreement and you are wondering why your partner is so blind to your wants and needs, try switching roles.
You could say to your partner; “I am trying really hard to understand your angle but I am failing. Perhaps if we change places, I could better understand what you mean.” At that time switch places, physically. Then ask your spouse to be you while you are him in the discussion. Tell your partner to try and use the exact words and tone or pitch of voice that you used, and you do the same.
Discuss whatever you were discussing in this switched mode. If used properly, this technique can be phenomenal.
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